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Fear of failure & self-doubt


Fear of failure & self-doubt can cause you to really dread something unnecessarily because you are afraid that you cannot do it, that you will make bad mistakes, make a fool of yourself and/or that you will fail. You can then try to get through the doubt, fear & indecurity, but if you don't address the causes of your fear of failure & self-doubt, you will have to do so every time again.

Fear of failure can cause so much doubt, tension, nervousness, uncertainty & anxiety, that to do a (new) task or take a new step in your life or work can feel like some sort of punishment, rather than interesting or fun. And if you feel like you have to stay on your toes all the time, that you are going to make terrible mistakes & are afraid that something won't work out or that you can't do it, there is of course no fun in that.


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Failure & mistakes


If you are very afraid of failing or making mistakes, you can put so much pressure on yourself that even something fairly simple can seem incredibly difficult to you & take a lot of effort & energy to get it done. This exhausts yourself & reduces your clarity, overview & effectiveness & increases the likelihood that you will actually make mistakes - so fear of failure can unintentionally make you actually perform less well.

The fear of failure makes it very tempting to play it safe, avoid risk, stay where you are & keep doing what you are good at. Because no matter how strong you are, if you are constantly up against the odds, you will eventually tend to avoid the situations where you encounter the self-doubt, uncertainty & fear of failure.

Fear of failure & self-doubt make (working) life unnecessarily hard and because doubt & fear cost you a lot of time, effort & energy, you will likely underperform. And/or you will start or continue to function below your level, missing out on opportunities & making your (working) life rather boring. That's why it's important to learn to address fear of failure & learn to enhance your self-confidence.

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